Me Versus We In Love

Turn Away From Selfishness And Towards Selfless Love

 

Happy Couple In Winter LoveUnusually, I actually met the love of my life on an adult chat line called Hot Gozzip Chat. More info can be found here http://www.hotgozzipchat.comAfter dating for a while, we fell in love and I began to learn that selfless love is the exact opposite of selfishness. Everyone has a selfish nature, but we are also able to be selfless in love. Many people have different views about where love comes from. When we love others, the love is put into action. We not only think about other people instead of just ourselves, but we start doing more things for other people. We see how wonderful a selfless love can be.

Imagine you had everything you want but no one to share it with. You can talk to many older people whose friends and family have mostly passed on and they will tell you the world starts to get lonely. Yes, there are billions of people out there, but when your friends and family are mostly gone, it's a lonely world. So again, imagine you had all those things, everything you wanted, but no one was there.

In other words, we need people, not just for some scientific reason. We need people because loving others is what life is about, selfless and unconditional love. We receive happiness ourselves by giving to others in our love relationships.

When we act selfishly, we are thinking about gratifying ourselves. Think about your average day and be honest with yourself. How many times do you think you are selfish daily? In this world, if you thought of any number less than 100, think again. In all seriousness, I don't have a number, but think about when you're out among other people. Do you road rage easily and only think about your needs, or do you have compassion on other people?

Man Thinking Of Love

Just think about your day and what you normally do. I'll tell you that I'm selfish many more times than I'd like to admit. It's important that we always try to follow the example that has been set for us and be selfless towards others. Ideally, we would do this every time, which would make us perfect, and we're not perfect. Taking just small steps towards being less selfish is a great beginning. Selfishness causes all kinds of issues and selflessness has the opposite effect, causing all kinds of wonderful things to happen.